Seriously, that’s right, everything that you want to be, do and have in your life is just a choice followed by a continuous series of choices.
Yes, you have to have a positive and abundance mindset in order to even think that the above sentence is true but once you do you also need to take some form of action towards your end goals and outcomes.
We’re taught that this is by following a series of tasks and projects on a list that we just check off as we go and you absolutely can do it this way, I’m the queen of lists…and previously just being overwhelmed by them and being paralyzed, that’s the part you have to avoid.
The overwhelm and frustration that comes with a mile long “To-Do” list that’s full of things that you really don’t want to do, which is why the list seemingly never ends, can be paralyzing. Before you know it you’ve used your allotted work time to basically check a few emails, check your Facebook thread (and not in a positive making money kind of way), do a few of the things from your list that you have created habits around (that are most likely not income producing activities) and then you rewrite the list for the next time.
Then you’re feeling shitty, overwhelmed and anxious again because you haven’t done anything that is truly moving your business forward and you wasted the time that you had in your opinion. You beat yourself up about this until the vicious cycle repeats itself the next day or next work period.
Why do we do this to ourselves? If you just pick the top 1 thing that is going to move the needle of your business and life in the direction of your end goal and major outcomes and did that thing first thing – no matter what – wouldn’t that just be so much better? Um…duh…of course it would!
Yet there you go again checking your fucking email! Trust me, there’s nothing in there that can’t wait 30 more minutes until you’ve written your blog post for the day, filmed your first Facebook Live Stream and/or Periscope of the day, or in some way created and shared content around your message.
This truly is about making the choice to act with intention each and every day, no matter what. It can and will become habitual, I know “Old habits are hard to break.” “You can’t teach an old dog new tricks.” “Easier said than done.” yeah yeah yeah, I know it’s hard. Boo fucking hoo. Just do it!
Do you really want what you say you want as your end all be all outcome?
If you do than quit complaining and create the new 30-60 minute habit that is truly going to change your life.
If’ you can commit 60 minutes to The Kardashians and The Real Housewives of fill in the blank than can’t you dedicate that same amount of time to yourself, your dreams, your future, your present, your family?
OF COURSE YOU CAN – YOU’RE JUST CHOOSING NOT TO!
Ready for some Massive Upleveling Changes in your Business and Life?
Do you ever say, “I just wish somebody would tell me exactly what to do,” so that you can take your business and life to the next level?
Good news! I’m her and I’m ready to tell you exactly what you want to but may be difficult to hear advice. If you’re ready to make a plan and start taking action then this is for you.
I’m taking on 5 new 1:1 coaching clients for the month of April and if you’re ready to hear the blunt, honest truth about what you should and shouldn’t be doing then please let’s get started changing your life! You don’t have the luxury of waiting until you’re ready because it will never happen. You just need to make that swift and serious changes that make the most impact, period, end of story, there is no other way to make real lasting change in my opinion.
PM me on Facebook @ Ashly Simpson Heyniger or my business page Ashly Simpson and we can get started right away! The investment is $500 – this will be my lowest pricing ever so if you’re ready I recommend you make the choice and make it quickly.
This will be 4 weekly 45 – 50 minute 1:1 coaching calls on either Monday or Wednesday morning EST between roughly 10 am – 12 pm or an evening call if needed. As well as FB private messaging as needed.
We can discuss anything that you need to discuss regarding your life, your service based business, your product based business, kids, husband – truly whatever you need to move past to get to the next level. This will be what I really and truly think, I will not be holding back or coddling you in any way, so if you truly don’t want to hear it then we shouldn’t work together. I don’t have time for nonsense and neither do you.