Do you ever feel like your being a total poser when you wear something that you don’t normally wear? Like a hat for example.
You know, you feel like when you look in the mirror before you go out that you look great in your new hat, and you truly do, but that people are going to judge you and think things like, “Look at her thinking that she looks good wearing that hat. Who’s she fooling, we know she isn’t a hat person!” What the hell does that even mean? These are complete strangers, they have no idea what you normally wear nor do they give a shit.
Our internal mindset and judgement of ourselves is out of control isn’t it? We tell ourselves these crazy ass stories about what may or may not happen and they’re ludicrous almost always.
The reality is that you look like a Rich, Hot SuperMompreneur in your hat and you get compliments on it all day long! Then you start feeling great about wearing the hat and think, “Why don’t I wear this hat more often and become a “Hat Person”?”
Usually we just go home for the day and put the hat back in our closet only to forget it’s there and we only put it on once in a while because we’ve forgotten about the compliments we’ve received and we’re still worried about those people who know we aren’t hat people.
Why would you let the opinions that someone else has about your hat stop you from wearing your hat? You wouldn’t! Even writing that sentence was annoying.
So why are you letting the opinions (which by the way most people aren’t even paying attention to you and could give a shit if you wear a hat or not, they won’t notice either way – probably because they’re too worried about what you think about their pants!) of others stop you from being, doing and having anything that you want in your life?
It really is so stupid when you start to think about it isn’t it? Also, you’ll probably never know what the haters think of you because most will never tell you anyway and even if they do it is just projection from their own internal inadequacies!
They’re just jealous that you have a big enough set to actually put yourself out there, they only wish they had haters! Ha!
I challenge you to put on your hat today and wear it proudly and strut your little Rich, Hot SuperMompreneur ass all around town so as many people as possible see you in your bad-ass hat!
Obviously this, well doesn’t have to be I guess, is a metaphorical hat – your “hat” is anyway that you’re putting yourself and your business out there into the world and opening up yourself to judgement from others. It could be a blog post, video live stream, Periscope, Facebook Post, Instagram Pic, podcast, singing, dancing, anyway that you’re expressing yourself. Share your message proudly because nobody knows that you aren’t a “Hat Person.” You are a “hat person” so wear that hat proudly!
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