You are a leader and a creator – PLEASE start acting like one!
It’s so true that we go through our days constantly making little decisions that we don’t even realize we’re making.
Fine. You pick out what to wear, eat, what music or podcast to listen to, who to call and chit chat with, which errands you’ll do today and which you won’t, you spend hours on Facebook and Instagram fantasizing about your life through the fabulous lives of others, etc.
None of these decisions really matter in the long run though do they?
What decision are you making that are actually moving you towards your end outcome for the life and business that you desire?
What actions are you taking that are actually moving you towards your end outcome for the life and business that you desire?
None! Why not?
Because you don’t know where to start?
Because you’re afraid of change?
Because you’re afraid of failure?
Because only people without kids and household responsibilities have the time to take action?
Because you don’t really know what you want for yourself and your family and more importantly WHY you want it?
Because you don’t yet understand every aspect of online business and haven’t taken every eCourse that’s available to you for teaching you exactly the blueprint for what needs to be done to create a successful online business?
Because you’re waiting for the perfect idea, perfect timing, perfect inspiration?
Because you’ve been told that getting a good job and working for 30 years for someone else is the way things are done?
It doesn’t really matter what you’re telling yourself is the reason for why you aren’t doing what you know deep down that you’re really called to do, it’s all just fear and resistance.
Fear and Resistance? What are you really afraid of?
Write them down and then cross them off once you realize they are totally ridiculous and bullshit ridden!
Write down the opposite of the fear.
For example:
The Fear: People will think I’m a bitch if I’m too confident and make too much money.
Opposite: People will be inspired by my confidence and realize that if I can make money they can too.
Everything in this life is perception and you’re in luck because perception leads reality.
You can create anything and everything that you want for yourself.
No it’s not going to be easy or simple.
No it’s not going to be free
No it’s not going to be quick (although it could be if you decide that it will be and put in the necessary effort and create your ass off!)
It will be worth it in the long run though.
You will build and create the life and business that you truly desire – I mean hey, you’ve already created your life and business to be exactly what it is today, right?
Nobody else did that for you. Remember, you are making the daily choices in your life aren’t you?
If you want to quit smoking, quit.
If you want to lose weight, quit eating like shit, exercise, hire a trainer and nutritionist, write you way to the body that you want, believe it, feel the emotion around it, you can do it.
If you want to start a business, start one.
If you want to build your website, learn how and do it.
If you want your house organized, de-clutter and organize it!
Last time I checked we are in full control of our daily decisions and actions, especially during our “free time” if you’re still a 9-5er and obviously we all have certain obligations.
However, I encourage you to really think about wether those “obligations” are actually real or they’re made up in your head. Like, having to get the dishes and laundry done before you work on your business tasks for the day…really? I don’t think so.
If you want to stop biting your nails you can.
If you want to write a book you can. Cultivate a daily habit of uninterrupted writing time daily no matter what. You can talk into your phone, you can write in 25 min increments, you can write when you’re going to the bathroom, you can write at stoplights.
You don’t have to be like Carrie Bradshaw sitting at your desk looking out of your NYC apartment all alone to be able to write.
Change your perspective and know that you can and will get your book written on your own terms and there is no perfect setting, pen, pencil, laptop, journal, crayon or marker that is going to make it happen for you.
You will make it happen for you. Regardless of what “it” is.
What habit will you change, remove and/or cultivate today?
Mine is doing my daily success routine – no matter what.
Daily Success Routine Habits I’m Cultivating TODAY!
25 min – Daily written blog post
5-10 min – share daily life pics on Instagram
5-10 min – 1 Video for the Rich, Hot SuperMompreneur Show & Podcast (should be a Facebook LiveStream & a Periscope as well)
That’s it! You may consider mine to be ambitious and scary or maybe you think that it’s ridiculous and I should have already been doing these things. Either way, no judgement here about what you’re going to work on in your life today – big or small – if it moves you closer to your life and business outcomes I’m happy for you!
I’d love to know what habit in your life you’re going to change to take ownership of the leader, creator and Rich, Hot SuperMompreneur that we both know you’re meant to be so please leave a comment or email me!
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